Dis is my first topic lak...y i usulkan dis topik coz it is wat i lalui...actually i got our own house but not really far ngan my mom house...ada la bout 45minutes...normal speed...hehe.. then, start awal tahun ri tu, i n husband decide to live at my mom house coz we wanna transfer skul anak near to my mom house coz we plan to migrate n coz of migrate, husband yg kena pergi dulu n leave me n kiddos kt sini...eeewww tak kuasa klau i ditinggalkn wif kids at my own house ngan semua kerja i yg nk kena buat...huhu..no no no... i know well my kids.. even husband ada sekarang pun, i tired jg anak..inikan plak we need to be mom n at e same time as dad..huhu...so....itulah kesimpulannya...n that's e reason y i'm here...
The Problem....hmm problem...tak de la besar ...mostly kita dengar prob when stay wif ibu mertuaku but not for me...ini ibu ku sendiri...how should i start...at first when i stay here, i dah tanamkan dlm hati... since i'm housewife, i tak pernah nk berkira doing some of a housework...mmg i tak kisah..bab masak, mmg normally i yg buat...basuh pinggan, kemas umah...rasa bit penat...tp its ok..niat i mmg nak tlg my parents bfr i migrate... jrg i nak gaduh ngan my parents or nk terasa hati but bab privacy mmg i terasa sgt kurang...thats y i suka if husband ada masa, we spend together2 outside...bw anak2 jln2..n weekend mmg kitorang balik umah kitorang...ok lupa nk inform husband i still here n tk pergi pun lg..still waiting...so, sumtime rasa nyesal gak pindah awal sgt ke umah mak nie.. we should stay umah kitorang dulu...n bila i n husband bincang benda nie, of course i jer yg nk diblame kn...nnti we talk bout that plak yer..
then everiting still under control till my younger sister deliver bby n berpantang at my mom house...of course la dia perempuan n need her mom,....but, my housework jd bertambah byk ler...adddooiiyaii... itu yg buat i tak keruan n till i decide tuk create blog ni... byk lak timbul ketidakpuasan hati i.. maybe coz i tired...guest slalu dtg nk jenguk her bby, n normally i la tea lady tu...n after det tukang basuh pinggan mangkuk...kalau 3-4 guest dtg on that day, mmg tak sempat duduk le i...i try to ngelat.but slalu jer tak sampai hati ...so i duduk le menonggok wif senyuman yg kelat2...ndak tak ndak jer..sumtime sian gak kat husband sbb terpaksa melepak dlm bilik jer...malas dia nk kluar n nyembang ngan kwn2 adik / sedara besan tu...
BUt semalam, husband ajak kluar jln2 cari minum ptg ngan kidos...i'm really happy..ye la feel like dh lama gak tk keluar jln2 ptg esp since adik dlm pantang nie.. then i just ask my mom ...actually just wanna inform her... i think no need to minta izin her coz i wif my husband n i should follow my husband...but when she knew i nk kluar jalan2 terus dia tak kasik...she said sape nk tgk kn adik nnti if anything happen coz his husband not around..n no need la klau stakat nk kluar jln2...not important....terasa hati i...then bleh plak my mom said yg i nie tak pernah nk fikirkn family langsung...eewww...wat i'm doing bfr nie everiting just for them..i tak berkira pun..but wat i said just ok sory ...n i tak kisah...but after that, going inside my room n cry... dekat husband , i just said no need to go outside.. i'll cook for tea tyme...huhuhu..sedihnyaaa,...n after that i realize ptg tu tok my sis blah husband dia will dtg umah...so, "who is the tea lady?" "Datin Maimun"..hahaha..of course me...klau diorang2 yg nk kluar...tak de kisah pun but when me...tak bleh jer...perlu ker my mom control i sedangkn i already married n i got husband???...huhu... ntah la wat will happen lg after dis...luv ollss...
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