Masalah Hidup Serumah Dengan Ibu Kandung...

Dis is my first topic lak...y i usulkan dis topik coz it is wat i lalui...actually i got our own house but not really far ngan my mom house...ada la bout 45minutes...normal speed...hehe.. then, start awal tahun ri tu,  i n husband decide to live at my mom house coz we wanna transfer skul anak near to my mom house coz we plan to migrate n  coz of migrate, husband yg kena pergi dulu n leave me n kiddos kt sini...eeewww tak kuasa klau i ditinggalkn wif kids at my own house ngan semua kerja i yg nk kena buat...huhu..no no no... i know well my kids.. even husband ada sekarang pun, i tired jg anak..inikan plak we need to be mom n at e same time as dad..huhu...so....itulah kesimpulannya...n that's e reason y i'm here...
The Problem....hmm problem...tak de la besar ...mostly kita dengar prob when stay wif ibu mertuaku but not for me...ini ibu ku sendiri...how should i start...at first when i stay here, i dah tanamkan dlm hati... since i'm housewife, i tak pernah nk berkira doing some of a housework...mmg i tak kisah..bab masak, mmg normally i yg buat...basuh pinggan, kemas umah...rasa bit penat...tp its ok..niat i mmg nak tlg my parents bfr i migrate... jrg i nak gaduh ngan my parents or nk terasa hati but bab privacy mmg i terasa sgt kurang...thats y i suka if husband ada masa, we spend together2 outside...bw anak2 jln2..n weekend mmg kitorang balik umah kitorang...ok lupa nk inform husband i still here n tk pergi pun lg..still waiting...so, sumtime rasa nyesal gak pindah awal sgt ke umah mak nie.. we should stay umah kitorang dulu...n bila i n husband bincang benda nie, of  course i jer yg nk diblame kn...nnti we talk bout that plak yer..
then everiting still under control till my younger sister deliver bby n berpantang at my mom house...of course la dia perempuan n need her mom,....but, my housework jd bertambah byk ler...adddooiiyaii... itu yg buat i tak keruan n till i decide tuk create blog ni... byk lak timbul ketidakpuasan hati i.. maybe coz i tired...guest slalu dtg nk jenguk her bby, n normally i la tea lady tu...n after det tukang basuh pinggan mangkuk...kalau 3-4 guest dtg on that day, mmg tak sempat duduk le i...i try to ngelat.but slalu jer tak sampai hati ...so i duduk le menonggok wif senyuman yg kelat2...ndak tak ndak jer..sumtime sian gak kat husband sbb terpaksa melepak dlm bilik jer...malas dia nk kluar n nyembang ngan kwn2 adik / sedara besan tu...
BUt semalam, husband ajak kluar jln2 cari minum ptg ngan kidos...i'm really happy..ye la feel like dh lama gak tk keluar jln2 ptg esp since adik dlm pantang nie.. then i just ask my mom ...actually just wanna inform her... i think no need to minta izin her coz i wif my husband n i should follow my husband...but when she knew i nk kluar jalan2 terus dia tak kasik...she said sape nk tgk kn adik nnti if anything happen coz his husband not around..n no need la klau stakat nk kluar jln2...not important....terasa hati i...then bleh plak my mom said yg i nie tak pernah nk fikirkn family langsung...eewww...wat i'm doing bfr nie everiting just for them..i tak berkira pun..but wat i said just ok sory ...n i tak kisah...but after that, going inside my room n cry... dekat husband , i just said no need to go outside.. i'll cook for tea tyme...huhuhu..sedihnyaaa,...n after that i realize ptg tu tok my sis blah husband dia will dtg umah...so, "who is the tea lady?"  "Datin Maimun"..hahaha..of course me...klau diorang2 yg nk kluar...tak de kisah pun but when me...tak bleh jer...perlu ker my mom control i sedangkn i already married n i got husband???...huhu... ntah la wat will happen lg after dis...luv ollss...

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Salam....


Dis is my first post...n actually i did not really knew how to use dis blog..hehe..normally i laik to xplore facebook more den others...but start from today maybe it ken bi my best diary just for me to express my feel...hahaha...ye la..rasa cam nobody can i talk tuk meluahkan perasaan either happy or sad...n sorry to say, i rasa as human, manusia lebih suka mendengar ttg keburukan / kesedihan org drpd kebahagiaan seseorang..n when they knew sumone tu tgh in problem, lg diorang suka ngutuk n mengata that person...ye kan? hehe...juz my opinion...sbb i slalu survey tgk bila status sumbody tu bout his/her sadness / problem, coment should be berpuluh2...but if his/her status is sumting happy, coment ada la 1/2 jer...hehe....biasalakan..yg bz body pun ramai... BUT
In dis blog, mmg i wanna tell u all bout anything happy / sad...tak kisah lah ,that happen in my life mean it's reality...right?hehe...no need to bzbody coz mmg tujuan i tulis pun juz for dem...hehe no la...i juz need frend that can lend me a shoulder to cry on when i need it n frend that will laugh wif me when i'm happy n frend that can give me a good advice when i'm in a problem..
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First of all, i would like to ...ish dah macam bagi syarahan plak..hehe..ok..i'm a housewife..sorry actually first class degree housewife...hahaha....i had 3 kiddos n all re boyz...phew penat dengar bila semua lelaki...hehe...no wonder i feel cam tired sgt mental n fizikal ..but they re very kiutt n i luv dem.. i have a luvly n caring husband...still got parents n younger sisters...
bit bout my history...i had my own business for 6 years n after i got a 3rd bby , i decide to stop all my business.. n now dh nearly 3 yrs i'm as housewife...at first, mmg susah nak accept...n susah being a housewife...diri sendiri pun susah nk terima,..mcm2 terfikir..everyday fikir apa nak buat...nk minta kerja..n mcm2 lg..but support from husband make me kuat tuk hadapi dis situation...but being a housewife nie mmg ada pro n con nyer...semua benda pun samakn...n paling penting , kena redha ler,...bila kita redha , hati ikhlas menerima..insyaAllah semua benda jadi senang....
hmm...sebenarnya banyak lg yg i nak story2 kat sini...but better i sambung tomorrow..cukup setakat ni dulu...coz i'm realy xcited to design my new room nie...apa la yg i bleh buat ek....check it out...luv olsss..